• Speaking Different Languages

    January 19, 2026

    For me, sometimes it feels like I am living in multiple worlds since my NPE* discovery. How differently I share my DNA discovery truth with people is…

  • Outing Myself Unexpectedly

    December 24, 2024

      People ask me what changed my mind about reaching out to my half siblings to share that I discovered their father was also my father. The…

  • Cousin Kate

    May 19, 2024

    This is my NPE story of discovering in 2015 that my Dad was not my biological Dad. If you’d like to follow along, I encourage you to…

  • Saying it out loud

    April 15, 2024

      “I fully expect you to say no,” my fellow *NPE friend Bill Griffeth wrote to me in a Twitter message in the fall of 2018. What…

  • My New Biological Siblings

    January 24, 2024

    I’m asked, “What has actually changed since my DNA discovery?” Do you mean besides the whole “losing my entire identity” thing? Well, here’s one at the top…