• Speaking Different Languages

    January 19, 2026

    For me, sometimes it feels like I am living in multiple worlds since my NPE* discovery. How differently I share my DNA discovery truth with people is…

  • Cousin Kate

    May 19, 2024

    This is my NPE story of discovering in 2015 that my Dad was not my biological Dad. If you’d like to follow along, I encourage you to…

  • A New Medical History

    April 30, 2024

      I had a doctor’s appointment yesterday with a new eye doctor. I was nervous. He is a specialist. Nine years ago, at age 50, when I…

  • Losing a Tree

    April 2, 2024

    For several years after I found out I wasn’t my Dad’s biological daughter, I couldn’t even look at his tree anymore. It was literally a full stop. …

  • Telling the Girls

    December 6, 2023

      I knew that eventually, I had to tell our girls about my DNA discovery. This was about their DNA, too. I had made the decision not…