• The Questions I Can Never Ask

    January 30, 2026

    I recently found a photo of my bio grandmother’s sister, Sadie, on Ancestry. I’d never seen her face before. As I looked at it, I realized some…

  • Speaking Different Languages

    January 19, 2026

    For me, sometimes it feels like I am living in multiple worlds since my NPE* discovery. How differently I share my DNA discovery truth with people is…

  • Inheriting a Stranger

    December 24, 2025

    Since I began wearing makeup when I was about 15 years old, I was never the kind of girl who sat in front of the mirror for…

  • Outing Myself Unexpectedly

    December 24, 2024

      People ask me what changed my mind about reaching out to my half siblings to share that I discovered their father was also my father. The…

  • Cousin Kate

    May 19, 2024

    This is my NPE story of discovering in 2015 that my Dad was not my biological Dad. If you’d like to follow along, I encourage you to…