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  • Outing Myself Unexpectedly

    December 24, 2024

      People ask me what changed my mind about reaching out to my half siblings to share that I discovered their father was also my father. The…

  • What Happens Now?

    November 10, 2024

      What happens when the proverbial dust has settled on an NPE* discovery? The quick answer is that you live with it. We can all agree what…

  • Cousin Kate

    May 19, 2024

    This is my NPE story of discovering in 2015 that my Dad was not my biological Dad. If you’d like to follow along, I encourage you to…

  • A New Medical History

    April 30, 2024

      I had a doctor’s appointment yesterday with a new eye doctor. I was nervous. He is a specialist. Nine years ago, at age 50, when I…

  • Saying it out loud

    April 15, 2024

      “I fully expect you to say no,” my fellow *NPE friend Bill Griffeth wrote to me in a Twitter message in the fall of 2018. What…